Instant gratification. Naturally a human desire. In this day and age, our society lives in the moment. Someone, somewhere decided that "now" is better than later. Besides... who really wants to exercise some patience and WAIT?
- We don't want to save our money for those new Jessica Simpson shoes, so we open a charge card or spend half of our paycheck on them so we can have them now.
- We want to lose those last two pounds TODAY, so we go all day without eating and spend an extra hour in the gym.
- We want to find prince charming so we take it upon ourselves to Facebook stalk him.
- We make the decision to say "yes" to God and welcome Jesus into our hearts. We want to memorize every story in the Bible. We want to recite every verse. We want to know every song during worship. We're on fire for God so we want spiritual maturity, now.
Okay, you get the point. And to be honest, I'm guilty of almost each and every one of these. I used to have a bad habit of shopping. I would open credit cards just to have the newest.. .. .. anything! As long as I had it that day I was "happy." I'd eat nothing but saltine crackers so I could fit into a size 3 faster. I got into an unhealthy relationship with someone I hardly knew through a mutual friend. At the time, I thought I
needed a relationship, so I settled. Several years later I got saved (by the grace of God) and thought, I need to learn everything there is to know about being a follower of Christ so I can be a godly christian, now!
What I'm trying to say is, some things take time. It has been said,
there are no shortcuts to anyplace worth going. Patience is one of the hardest tests God will give us. He will test our patience, time and time again, to see how we respond.
God loves us so much that he will extend us the grace to walk us through that test until we pass it.
It took me a long time to develop patience. And trust me, I still have my struggles. I tried taking shortcuts but I'm quickly reminded that instant gratification
rarely offers the same
quality rewards like hard work and time well spent. In my experiences I've learned that most of the time it's better to walk rather than to sprint. And that learning to avoid shortcuts is a demonstration of discipline, growth, and obedience. A lot of times, we don't understand why the things
we think we want, we can't have, and that's okay. Have patience. Trust in The Lord's plan, because
chances are He has something better for you, and we could be in the midst of one of His tests.
-Tracy
"He makes us wait. He keeps us in the dark on purpose. He makes us walk when we want to run, sit still when we want to walk, for he has things to do in our souls that we are not interested in." -Elisabeth Elliot